Many survivors of suicide experience a difficult road in the wake of loss - and the reasons can be varied and unique. In some cases, relationships are pushed to unfamiliar territory, which can result in strain. The effect of suicide loss on relationships of any kind is so prevalent that we have an entire category of posts devoted to the topic. Today's post from guest author Jenny provides a candid reflection on how her relationship with her mom ...
You have permission to grieve a suicide loss
While we never wish for anyone to relate to the reflections we share about suicide loss, this blog gives us an opportunity to connect with survivors from all walks of life and in many corners of the world. Suicide loss is traumatic and complicated. And because of that, the accompanying grief journey is also complex.
Suicide is shocking. It feels like a rug was pulled out from under you – at best. Suicide loss often comes without warning, ...
Close or Strained Relationship? Suicide Loss Hurts
Like many survivors of suicide loss, I have spent the majority of time following my dad’s death invested in the way he died over the way he lived. For six years, I've analyzed his last few months and questioned if I could have done things differently.
Recently, I was sitting with a friend when she said something that struck me… Navigating a strained relationship with her own father, she said, “I’m envious of how close you were with your dad ...
Growing Together Instead of Apart After Loss
I was honored to be asked to be a featured expert on Marriage.com. In a world plagued by social media, our marriage and/or relationships can easily be placed under the microscope. We question if the person we have chosen to share our life with is the right one. Is there someone out there better suited to be with me? Does this person even understand me? Throw in a tragic loss like suicide, and the one thing that felt stable may feel completely ...
About that “grief stuff” I share on Facebook…
Dear Friend,
I know it’s been a while since I lost my loved one. As you scroll through your Facebook feed and see me posting about my grief months and even years later, I know what you’re probably thinking: “When will you go back to being your old self? I miss the fun stuff you used to share. You seem different now and your posts about death, suicide and your sadness are a bit of a downer. I said I was sorry for your loss when it happened, and ...
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