In the aftermath of yet again, another mass shooting, I have found myself questioning what is contributing to the consistent rise in mass murders that often end in suicide? While at a friend's house the other night, her husband and I discussed the issue. "As a therapist," he asked, "what do you think the problem is? Is it a gun control problem or a mental health problem?" This is often the question asked by many in our society. The media ...
How Do a Loved One’s Last Words Affect You?
We love hearing from other survivors as it gives further insight into how death by suicide impacts others. Thank you Natalie - a fellow LOSS participant - for opening up and sharing your experience with us. We are honored to share your words with our readers.
Written by: Natalie Karnik
Prior to one of the monthly LOSS meetings that I attend, a reoccurring thought came back to me. My father and I were very close, so sometimes my mind ...
Is Suicide Contagious?
On Sunday night, Oprah's network OWN, aired 'Running From Crazy', a documentary examining the personal journey of, Mariel Hemingway, the granddaughter of Ernest Hemingway, as she strives for a greater understanding of her family history of suicide and mental illness. As a survivor, I relate to Mariel's overwhelming fear that has guided her on her quest to lead a life of purpose. A quest to ensure that the ending to her story does not mirror those ...
Inspiration After Loss
It is often difficult to find inspiration after loss. I discovered this quote the other day and sent it to my sister. I couldn't help but think about my dad when I read the quote. I have asked myself time and time again, "Why did this happen to me?" I often watch other families; listen to others' as they talk about their parents and loved ones, all while smiling graciously as others' talk about the relationships they have with their fathers. It ...
Treatment for the Suicidal
On television's "The View" this morning, the hosts briefly discussed the apparent suicide of Mick Jagger's former girlfriend, L'Wren Scott. I did not catch this segment in its entirety; however my attention was drawn to the TV when one of the hosts stated, "You need to reach out to someone, as there are always other options." Since the segment aired this morning, I have found myself thinking about the treatment available for the suicidal. I ...